I sit here watching my stepson play basketball and a thought pops into my head: raising a teenager is like a test of wills!
This idea was triggered by a recent exchange we had. The discussion began when I prompted him to put on a hoodie to temper the evening air. He grunted, complained, and mumbled under his breath “I don’t even wear those”, but he complied, knowing that this discussion was not open for debate.
That exchange occurred last night, and was forgotten by the both of us, until this afternoon. He was readying to begin his basketball practice. Before he took to the court, he removed his hoodie; yes the very same one of last night’s discussion. However, even more shocking than him wearing the garment again, was the comment he tossed at me: “I’m keeping that hoodie, I like it”, as he trotted off to play basketball.
It was in that moment I knew for sure that children are sent to DRIVE US
I immediately sent an SOS text to a few close loved ones:
“raising a teenager is enough to drive anyone to drink. Pray for my sanity”, the text read.
But now I sit here reflecting on my stepson’s stubbornness and his rejection of things before having all of the facts. If I were honest with myself and with you, haven’t we all been guilty of the same thing? Rejecting something, just because it’s new or unfamiliar.
How often have you missed out on things simply because you weren’t willing to try?
2015 is rapidly coming to a close and I am pleased to report that in this year, I took several risks and opened myself up to the new, including:
- Trying Flying Trapeze
- Taking an aerial silk dancing class (think Cirque Du Soleil)
- Writing and self-publishing my first children’s book
However, the BEST news is that the year is not YET over! We still have two and a half months to make it count!
Take some time to think about something new that you’re going to try…
Life According to Me,