As an 80’s child I recall being inundated with slogans like RIF: reading is fundamental and Knowledge is Power. I reflect on these phrases now because they remind me about the liberating power of reading.
You may wonder what has me in this contemplative mode about reading…
I sit here, traveling, and working my way through the first few chapters of a book called the Untethered Soul by Michael Singer. Thus far, the book is exploring the notion of “awakening one’s consciousness” to the realization that we are not our thoughts – just as we are not defined by, objects that are outside of ourselves. It is a very interesting point and it definitely serves as confirmation for the process of self-discovery that I decided to begin several years ago.
As I read and took notes in the margins, a thought popped into my head… it was my mother who purchased my copy of the Untethered Soul and it was that same woman who nurtured my initial love for reading. It seems my mother, from the start, was an unconscious or intuitive supporter of my emotional and spiritual growth!
During my preschool years, I recall her reading to me and then listening to me as I read books such as Goose Goofs Off and Little Miss Bossy. These two books tickled me to death, as a young girl, because the characters reflected what I had come to understand about the Donna that I was at that time: a procrastinator, who was DEMANDING. LOL!
However, gone are the days of books about demanding-ness and procrastination. Nowadays my mother is buying me books such as Why You’re Not Married Yet and the Untethered Soul.
Thank goodness my mother’s book selections have expanded – I guess to fit the ‘me’ that I have grown into. Isn’t it interesting how life, and our experience of it, will often be a reflection of what is occurring within! As if life is merely just a mirror image of our inner world. So if you want your external environment to change, I guess you should begin by changing your internal world.
We are often told to work on ourselves, but that work is often the hardest thing we’ll ever have to do! Isn’t it so much easier to complain, or to whine, or even to blame others? It is… but that route only leads to heartache, headache, and misery! We can’t change others and often (most times) we can’t change the things happening around us. So what can we change? Ultimately, the answer returns to the idea that the only thing we are ever in control of is OUR SELF.
I challenge YOU to go within… examine your heart, challenge your mind, change your thoughts, acknowledge your feelings – and watch your reality transform and expand! You may even surprise yourself and find that in the process of changing yourself – everything around you mirrors what you’ve always desired… You could wake up one day and find that you landed yourself in a place called peace and happiness.